How to Play Charades

Charades is popular because it’s easy to play, free, and doesn’t require much upfront planning or budgeting. It’s also highly interactive. The acting part require players to stand up in front of everyone and act out different given charade words, which often gets people on their feet and out of their comfort zones—exactly what makes the game so fun. There are many ways to play charades, but in this post, we focus only on the most common formats: playing in teams, playing with three players, or one person playing against another person(One-on-One).

Requirements:

You need:

  • Pen and paper – for writing charade prompts and keeping score (optional)
  • Charades words or phrases – Either from a generator such as this one or words written or printed on paper or cards
  • A container – bowl, hat, or box to hold the charade slips (if using paper)
  • Scoreboard – whiteboard, notepad, or phone notes (optional)
  • A space to act – enough room for players to stand and move around
  • Rules – agreed-upon time limits, scoring, and gestures allowed

How to Play Charades

Gather all players: Start by bringing everyone together in one place where they can see and hear each other clearly. Charades can be played with as few as two people, but it’s more fun with a larger group. Make sure everyone understands that the game involves acting, guessing, and lots of participation.

Decide the game format: Choose how you want the game to be played, depending on the number of participants you have. You can divide players into teams, play with three players rotating roles, or have one person act while the rest guess. The format you choose will determine how turns are taken and how points are awarded.

Prepare the charade prompts: Write words or phrases on small slips of paper and place them in a bowl, box, or hat. These can be movies, actions, objects, or phrases, depending on the theme you choose. Alternatively, you can use a charades generator like ours or pre-made cards to save time.

Explain and agree on the rules: Before starting, clearly explain the rules to everyone. Actors are not allowed to speak or make sounds. Only gestures, facial expressions, and body movements are allowed. Also decide how long each round will last and whether hints are permitted. Here is a detailed guide on some of the most common charades rule.

Set up scoring and time limits: Decide how points will be earned and tracked. Typically, a team earns one point for each correct guess within the time limit. Choose a time limit per round (usually 30 seconds to 1 minute) and assign someone to keep time and score. Use our charades timer for customized and easy timing.

Choose who goes first: Decide which team or player will start. You can do this randomly by volunteering, or by a quick game like rock-paper-scissors. Once chosen, the first actor steps forward.

Draw and review the charade: The actor picks a prompt from the bowl or card stack and looks at it privately. They should take a moment to think about how to act it out using gestures and movements without speaking.

Act out the charade: When the timer starts, the actor begins performing the charade. They can use common charades signals (such as indicating the number of words) and exaggerated actions to help their team guess correctly.

Guess the answer: The rest of the team calls out guesses as quickly as possible while the actor continues to perform. The round ends when the correct answer is guessed or when the time runs out.

Award points and rotate turns: If the correct answer is guessed within the time limit, award the agreed-upon points. Then rotate turns so a new player becomes the actor, and the next team or group takes their turn.


Keep playing until all prompts are used or a set number of rounds is completed. Make sure everyone gets a chance to act and guess to keep the game fair and engaging. Once the game ends, tally up the scores. The team or player with the highest score wins. You can end with a small prize or simply enjoy the laughs and memorable moments from the game.

For a recap of the above steps, here is a great video by Boston Children’s Museum on how to play charades:

How to Play Charades as a Team

Team play is the most common and energetic way to enjoy charades. Start by dividing players into two teams, or more if you have a large group. During each round, one player from the active team steps forward, draws a prompt, and acts it out silently while their teammates try to guess the answer. Only the actor’s team is allowed to guess during their turn.

To keep the game fair and lively, rotate the acting role so a different person represents the team each round. This ensures everyone gets a chance to participate instead of one confident actor taking over. For added excitement, you can introduce a time limit for each round, award bonus points for quick guesses, or allow the opposing team to steal a point if the correct answer isn’t guessed before time runs out. The team with the highest score at the end wins.

How to Play Charades with 3 Players

There are instances when you may want to play charades with only 3 players. This common is small family settings. The good news is that charades works surprisingly well even with just three players. One person can act out a prompt while the other two players guess. After each round, you can rotate roles so everyone gets an equal chance to act and guess.

You can decide in advance how points are awarded—either the point goes to the player who guesses correctly or to the actor for successfully acting out the prompt. This setup keeps the game balanced and competitive without feeling crowded. Since the group is small, feel free to make it more creative by allowing expressive gestures, exaggerated movements, or even simple props to make the acting more fun.

How to Play Charades with 2 Players (One-on-One)

Two-player charades is the simplest version of the game and is perfect for a quick challenge between you and a friend or partner. Decide who will act first, then have one party choose a charade prompt and act it out while the other person guesses. Once the guess is correct, switch roles.

This version doesn’t require strict timing or scoring unless you want to add it. You can play casually, taking turns acting and guessing, or make it competitive by counting how many prompts each player successfully guesses. It’s a relaxed format that still delivers plenty of laughs and keeps both players fully engaged.

Common Signals and Gestures Used When Acting in Charades

Since speaking is not allowed in charades, actors need to rely on certain signals and gestures to guide their team toward the correct answer. Here are some of the most common signals and gestures:

  • Signaling the number of words in the phrase: Hold up the same number of fingers as the total number of words in the phrase.
  • Signaling which word or syllable you are acting out: Hold up the corresponding number of fingers (for example, one finger for the first word, two fingers for the second).
  • Signal the number of syllables in a word: Place the matching number of fingers against your forearm or clap once for each syllable.
  • Signaling a small or short word: Hold your index finger and thumb close together to show that the word is short.
  • Signaling a big or long word: Hold your index finger and thumb far apart to indicate a longer or more complex word.
  • Signaling that a guess is correct: Touch your nose with your index finger while looking at the person who made the correct guess.
  • Signaling that a word sounds like another word: Gently tug on your ear to indicate a “sounds like” clue.
  • Signaling a plural word: Hook your little fingers together or repeat the same gesture twice.
  • Signaling the entire phrase or concept: Sweep your hands in a wide circle to show that you are acting out the full idea, not just one word.
  • Signaling that a player is “on the right track”: Nod your head, point at the guesser, or use encouraging gestures to show they are close.

Here is another great video tutorial by Allyson McGough highlighting some of the gestures above: